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Q: I set a lot of goals for last year -- but I only managed to reach a couple of them. I'm really discouraged. Do you have any tips for motivation to keep going?

Jim: I'll offer a phrase to keep in mind when life gets tough -- just get to the next tree.

There's a military training school in Vermont that puts soldiers through incredibly ...Read more

Q: Every December I set goals for new things I want to accomplish in the next year. But even when I've managed to follow through and achieve those things I still feel unfulfilled. Isn't life all about seeking and finding new experiences? What am I missing?

Jim: One of the most common traditions at New Year's parties all over the world is to ...Read more

Q: I want to say that I'm feeling cynical about Christmas and all the feel-good messaging. Just look around us! This world is getting worse all the time. Wars between nations, racial issues, political differences, even next-door neighbors at each other's throats -- I'm starting to believe that "goodwill among men" is completely unrealistic. How ...Read more

Q: I'm kind of dreading Christmas this year. We're basically obligated to hang out with extended family whose opinions on a number of issues clash with ours. Can you give us any advice for at least trying to keep things civil?

Jim: As the old saying goes, "You can choose your friends ... but not your family." We often discover how true that is ...Read more