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DEAR HARRIETTE: I recently developed a love for having plants around my home because they add such a refreshing vibe, but I struggle to keep them alive. People remark that I don't have a green thumb and that I should give up on this hobby, but I'm determined to prove them wrong. I've done a lot of research on how to care for plants, yet they ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: It's been a month since I lost my dad, and it's been hard for me and especially my mom. He was the provider for our family -- both financially and emotionally -- and he always taught us to strive to be better every day. Now that he's gone, I feel as though a huge part of me is missing, and I'm struggling to process the grief. ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a woman in my 20s, and lately, my self-esteem has taken a serious plunge. Just a year ago, I felt confident, vibrant and happy with who I was. Recently, though, things have shifted, and I find myself constantly comparing myself to other women, whether it's their looks, careers or social lives. It feels like I can't measure ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: My sister and I have not spoken for a few months, and I'm really heartbroken over it. We've always been close, but an argument has driven us apart. The fight started because she feels like I never let her finish speaking when we have conversations. I admit that I can get excited or passionate when we're talking, and sometimes I ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: My boyfriend and I recently got into a huge fight, and I'm still feeling upset about it. During our argument, he called me privileged, and it really struck a nerve. I've worked hard for everything I have in life. I grew up in a small town with parents who loved me deeply but didn't have much to their name. I put myself through ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: This Thanksgiving was an absolute disaster. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year, and this holiday felt like the perfect time to introduce him to my family. I was nervous because, while I love them, my family is known to be a little unconventional. They're loud, opinionated and tend to say exactly what's on their minds, no ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: My friend recently ran her first marathon, and while we're all super proud of her accomplishment, it has completely taken over every conversation. Whether we're at brunch, hanging out or texting in our group chat, she always brings the topic back to her training, the race itself or how she's already planning for the next one. At ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I just learned that a friend of mine "Arthur," passed away. Tragically, another friend figured it out and had the police do a wellness check. The paramedics discovered Arthur's body and took him away, but no one ever called my friend back. My friend called around until he learned that Arthur had died.

Now we are searching for ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I grew up as an army brat, and while there were many positives to that experience, it also came with significant challenges that I'm still grappling with as an adult. My family moved frequently during my childhood -- sometimes multiple times within a single year.

Each time we moved, I had to leave behind friends, schools and ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have always had a fear of heights, which has made me hesitant to try things that involve being up high. However, one item on my bucket list has been going skydiving in Dubai, and I'm determined to conquer this fear. I know that facing my fear head-on would be a huge personal achievement, but the idea of jumping out of an ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been fighting with my sister about her behavior around me and my family for years, and it's reached a breaking point. I have two daughters, ages 7 and 9, and every time their aunt comes to visit, I'm left feeling frustrated and upset. My sister has a habit of using crude language, making inappropriate jokes and displaying ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: My daughter has become consumed by social media and seems to measure her worth by the number of likes and comments she receives on her posts. Initially, she just wanted to learn how to use social media to promote and sell her collections, such as bags and shoes, but it's now affecting her self-esteem. My family and I have noticed...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I really love pets, especially cats, and I always make sure they're well taken care of by taking them to the nearest vet to keep them healthy and safe. Recently, my neighbor asked me to look after her cat for what she said would be a few days, but it's now been four weeks, and she still hasn't returned. While I love animals and ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a 30-year-old woman, and my parents are constantly pressuring me to get married. The truth is, I don't want to -- ever. I've made a conscious decision to focus on my own passions, dreams and personal growth instead of pursuing a traditional path. However, this choice has been met with disappointment from my family, ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: My roommate and his girlfriend constantly bicker, and I always end up being dragged into the middle of their arguments. It's frustrating because I feel like I'm being forced to pick sides when I don't even want to be involved at all. To make matters worse, I can't help but feel bad for his girlfriend because, frankly, my roommate...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been friends with this guy for two years, and over time, I've started to feel like our connection might be more than just friendship. He's always been kind, thoughtful and supportive, and I really enjoy spending time with him. Lately, I've caught myself looking at him differently and wondering if he feels the same way ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been trying to declutter my home for months, focusing on makeup, dresses and other items that no longer serve a purpose, but I keep getting stuck. Every time I start sorting through my belongings, I find myself emotionally attached to certain things, even though they're no longer necessary. The challenge is especially ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I've rented a bed space in Manila, Philippines, while pursuing my master's degree, and I share the space with a roommate. While I appreciate having someone to share the rent, her habit of leaving a mess in our shared bedroom area is becoming unbearable. I am the type of person who always wants to maintain a clean and tidy space -...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: My partner has become increasingly glued to his phone, even during family time with our child. It's frustrating to feel like he's prioritizing his screen over meaningful moments together, especially since we already have limited time to connect due to our busy schedules. To address this, I decided to implement a no-phone rule ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a new mother, and I feel like I can't do anything right. I just had a baby boy, and while I love him more than anything, the adjustment to motherhood has been painful and difficult for me. It seems like no matter how hard I try, I'm always falling short, whether it's soothing my baby when he cries, keeping up with housework ...Read more